I am so so so angry

I am really angry and fed-up with this house. When problem occur, everyone showed love and care but the person involved shows NOTHING at all!!!

My sister had problem with the boyfriend for quite sometime. This stupid guy always show temper and act weirdly to her when they are together. He can simply get mad in one matter, for example, not answering his call; he can shout at her in the middle of the night and step on the accelerator and drove off.

The first time he accelerate to make that loud noise, I see the attitude problem in this guy. Talked to my sister but you know...love is blind. She say because he has work problem. WTH! Work problem and tempered throw at you is NOT allowed. How stupid is she... Nevermind. Giving him another chance. Few days later, it happen again. This time together with very loud voice scolding her. Then same thing driving off with anger... to me also like crazy person. I stepped out and look at my sister... telling her this is not the first time he is doing that to her. She just say... "sien". I think she does hide and cry in the room. I already advice her to break-up with people like this and she didn't want to listen. I even heard her talking on the phone that she is the one who begged for forgiveness when the guy dumped her! @#$$%^

What is so wrong with her... I cannot understand. Today she's ok with him and the next few hours, they can get into argument. The problem is she kept finding excuses for this guy to make herself feel good. Damn...Ok. On the 21 October 2010, I got a call from the friend at 11.30pm telling me that my sister is in TROUBLE!! I had a deep breath to cool myself and listen. The friend told me that she went drinking with this guy and he drank alot. The temper came and he took a chair and wanted to throw at my sister. She's scared and hide inside the girls toilet. The friend got her call when she's having her shower and rushed to the pub to save her out. The purpose to call me is to tell me that the guy will be arriving at my doorstep soon to look for her. So just be PREPARED! Damn...

My sister sent me an sms saying that she is sorry and please don't let our parents know this matter. WTF! The guy really arrive in 5 min time. Shouting outside the house. Asking my sister to come out. Hello... it's like 12am in the morning and the whole street is soooo quiet. His voice is loud enough to wake the whole neighbourhood. He didn't give up after an hour and I called for help from my neighbour but all of them is so sound asleep. I was thinking that who can help me IF anything happened!!! OMG!!

Soon later the friend call again asking me if the crazy guy is outside my house, I say yes and he is here for very long time. Shouting for "Joanne Quek", calling her "drug addict gal". This is soooo shameful to the house and I don't know if my sister felt so anot. They say they are going to the police station to make a report and seek help for the police. Also waited for like 30 min and I see no sign of police coming. This crazy guy say he is gonna come in soon and I quickly call the friend again complaining that why is the police still NOT HERE YET!!!

I have no choice but to call my parents far in China to help me on this matter. Police came and shoo off this crazy fella. Dad called a friend to come check on us yet my sister still got mood to go yum cha with the friends. @#$%$^ Every adult is waiting for her outside the house and help her but she just don't seem to appreciate anything done by us except the friend!!!!! I really hate her from today onwards!

Dad's friend waited for 45min and left our house with anger. I felt so shameful and so sorry to them. I thought my sister is really innocent and have no transport after telling the friend we are waiting for her until the friend came and while we were chit-chatting only I found out that she didn't even tell them that we're waiting for her so they went yum cha opposite the police station. Damn her again...

Everyone got so worried, helped her to settle problem and to her is like small matter. WTF! The next day morning the guy came AGAIN! Woke me up so early in the morning, last night already make me slept very late and still come in the morning. Our gate was not lock and he manage to come in. SHIT!! I got so afraid, so as my sister, but she got no choice and have to confront him inside the house. He force us to open the door. I told him "sorry I can't". He just ignore me. Neighbour aunty came over to help solve the problem but end up, this crazy guy, took the gardening tools and wanted to throw at my sister. I really got a shock! My sister quickly run to the dining area to stay with me. The guy is really angry and I have no choice but to call my dad AGAIN.

Dad have no choice and called the police in case he really endangered both of us. I am a pregnant women and my sister made us all in this situation. Neighbour aunty got really worried and asked me to go over to her house from the back door. So i went because I think I cannot take it anymore. The conversation between them really make me angry because I don't sense my sister have any thought of settling the problem rather than making the crazy fella more angry. He also confronted that my sister is taking drug. Another shocking news for me.

Another 30 min only here come the cops AGAIN! They manage to get him out from our house and he drove off. After that my sister only know how to hide in the room and make calls. Later afternoon the girl friend came for lunch and the story she told me about last night got me another heartache. My sister is not telling the same story and she say that he didn't mean to hurt her but another girl friend of hers. Helping him again... nothing to say.

After knowing so much fact about my lier sister, I got very disappointed and hurt. Everyone worries about her, trying to help but she show sign that friends are always the best! Already went out as early as 7am in the morning. The more she go out, the more i'm worried at home. What for... she don't even care! I really hate her and also I hate myself for showing unnecessary love to her. Might as well save more for my baby!

Morning walk

Didn't know morning walk at the park in Taman Tun Dr Ismail can be something very fun to do everyday! Since I need more excercise for more healthy baby, I decided to go to the park as much as possible in order for baby to grow and easy for me to deliver in the future.

Last week, I went on the weekday, after a few rounds of walking, I decide to take some photo since there's not many people in the park. Suddenly, an old uncle, enthusiastically helped me in taking the photos and also explain to me that how to take the photo so that I will not have shady face! Cute person.

Today, while walking, my last round in the park, one Indian uncle stopped me by saying "good morning, how are you doing?". I actually did got a shock but I find these people are so nice to make your day. I didn't know greetings in the morning from a stranger can make me happy!!

After all, walking in the park does not only provide advantage to my eyes (with the greens), to my skin (vitamin D from the sun), to my baby and also to my mood (nice people and cute animals)! Hopefully I can do this everyday or every alternate day.

26 week check-up

Hubby's sister is home and she agree to send my down to Melaka for my regular check-up since I might not be able to do my twice a month check-up in Nov due to the timing when hubby is home. It's deepavali and definitely my doc will be in holiday.

Anyway, yesterday took me 7 hours to reach Gemencheh from KL because of a horrible 10.10.10 accident. Not interested to post up the pics here. We departed KL at 8pm and got stuck in the jam at 9.30pm. That's it. Slowly we drive from 5km/hr till 1km/hr... and then total STOP sometimes. Drag drag drag and slowly... we finally dragged 15km till the place where the accident is at 1am plus. Well, all my dear friends says that I've made it home and those didn't. So must be grateful. @@ Dunno to cry anot...

Since we're home at 2.45am, have some milk for my lil one and we all went to bed around 3am. I then decide to visit the doc in the afternoon because it will be impossible for us to wake up in 4 hours time to drive down to Melaka.

The next day, around 2pm, we depart to see my dear Dr Vishnu. Very very unlucky, we waited 1hour plus... and yet the baby is not showing her face today. Aaarrrgggh... doc also pik cik... But think back leh.. I think this doc might not be so good because he should have use a torchlight to catch her attention!! Then she'll turn out lor... wasted the scanning fee.

Of no reason, I did not ask the doc why am i low in Hb. Suddenly he ask if my family have any thalassemiacase. I say no...then he say my Hb very low...suspect got thalassemia. Spend extra RM40 to buy Iron pills where I just found out that I no need any of it! >_<

After doc, it's around 5pm. We then continue our jalan-jalan cari makan. End up in Jonker street. Desperately looking for the Durian puff which mummy is talking about. Ta Da~ Manage to get with half door close. Ooops... izzit close? Please don't. I want to eat Durian Puff!! We went in and ask and the tauke soh agree to bake some for us. Yay~ Later she told me she agree to bake more because she know I - the preggie - so wanna eat and she don't want my baby come out to be greedy? :)

Also went to another shop to try on pineapple tarts. End up we bough many many things except the pineapple tarts! @.@ womens.... After shopping, go collect our Durian puff and tauke soh also gimme one for free to eat! Yummylicious... Oh oh... she also promoted her durian ice-cream! Very nice too... RM4.50 per cup. Forgot to take pictures!

Next stop, Niu Dun for makan but not open AGAIN. Last time went with hubby also not open. Niu Dun really don't want me to eat there huh... oh, we went into the Banyonya. Nothing much in the menu and  nobody wanna layan us. Don't have the feeling to eat and we left the restaurant the end.

End up in some Food court near Malim. After dinner, straight go to Si Yee house to visit the baby. Very very cute girl whom always look at me and smile. Until today I still cannot forget her smile. So so sweet & cute. I want my girl to smile like her too ... must watch more comedy. :D Mother-in-law was so in a hurry where we step in the house and sat on the couch for only 2 minutes then she say it's time to leave. OMG!  We reach ah yee house at 7.50pm and left around 8.20pm. Almost wanna have argument with my MIL already because she keep chasing us home where I wanna talk to the new mommy on her experience. Argh...

Anyway, we're home around 9.30pm. Bath and went to bed very early because very tiring day but I'm happy!!