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Thursday, December 30, 2010

A blink of eye

A blink of eyes, i've already reach my 37 weeks pregnancy. Baby is coming out anytime!! I'm so nervous and excited. Everyday I'm attacked with lower back pain. It just got harder and harder, like tho my spine is going to break. Now i know what other pregnant mom meant. Ouch...

Hopefully baby is able to let me know when she wanna come out so that the daddy got enough time to fly back from Kuching. I really need him to be there for me. Baby, please show signs of you're ready to come out ah~

Saturday, October 23, 2010

I am so so so angry

I am really angry and fed-up with this house. When problem occur, everyone showed love and care but the person involved shows NOTHING at all!!!

My sister had problem with the boyfriend for quite sometime. This stupid guy always show temper and act weirdly to her when they are together. He can simply get mad in one matter, for example, not answering his call; he can shout at her in the middle of the night and step on the accelerator and drove off.

The first time he accelerate to make that loud noise, I see the attitude problem in this guy. Talked to my sister but you know...love is blind. She say because he has work problem. WTH! Work problem and tempered throw at you is NOT allowed. How stupid is she... Nevermind. Giving him another chance. Few days later, it happen again. This time together with very loud voice scolding her. Then same thing driving off with anger... to me also like crazy person. I stepped out and look at my sister... telling her this is not the first time he is doing that to her. She just say... "sien". I think she does hide and cry in the room. I already advice her to break-up with people like this and she didn't want to listen. I even heard her talking on the phone that she is the one who begged for forgiveness when the guy dumped her! @#$$%^

What is so wrong with her... I cannot understand. Today she's ok with him and the next few hours, they can get into argument. The problem is she kept finding excuses for this guy to make herself feel good. Damn...Ok. On the 21 October 2010, I got a call from the friend at 11.30pm telling me that my sister is in TROUBLE!! I had a deep breath to cool myself and listen. The friend told me that she went drinking with this guy and he drank alot. The temper came and he took a chair and wanted to throw at my sister. She's scared and hide inside the girls toilet. The friend got her call when she's having her shower and rushed to the pub to save her out. The purpose to call me is to tell me that the guy will be arriving at my doorstep soon to look for her. So just be PREPARED! Damn...

My sister sent me an sms saying that she is sorry and please don't let our parents know this matter. WTF! The guy really arrive in 5 min time. Shouting outside the house. Asking my sister to come out. Hello... it's like 12am in the morning and the whole street is soooo quiet. His voice is loud enough to wake the whole neighbourhood. He didn't give up after an hour and I called for help from my neighbour but all of them is so sound asleep. I was thinking that who can help me IF anything happened!!! OMG!!

Soon later the friend call again asking me if the crazy guy is outside my house, I say yes and he is here for very long time. Shouting for "Joanne Quek", calling her "drug addict gal". This is soooo shameful to the house and I don't know if my sister felt so anot. They say they are going to the police station to make a report and seek help for the police. Also waited for like 30 min and I see no sign of police coming. This crazy guy say he is gonna come in soon and I quickly call the friend again complaining that why is the police still NOT HERE YET!!!

I have no choice but to call my parents far in China to help me on this matter. Police came and shoo off this crazy fella. Dad called a friend to come check on us yet my sister still got mood to go yum cha with the friends. @#$%$^ Every adult is waiting for her outside the house and help her but she just don't seem to appreciate anything done by us except the friend!!!!! I really hate her from today onwards!

Dad's friend waited for 45min and left our house with anger. I felt so shameful and so sorry to them. I thought my sister is really innocent and have no transport after telling the friend we are waiting for her until the friend came and while we were chit-chatting only I found out that she didn't even tell them that we're waiting for her so they went yum cha opposite the police station. Damn her again...

Everyone got so worried, helped her to settle problem and to her is like small matter. WTF! The next day morning the guy came AGAIN! Woke me up so early in the morning, last night already make me slept very late and still come in the morning. Our gate was not lock and he manage to come in. SHIT!! I got so afraid, so as my sister, but she got no choice and have to confront him inside the house. He force us to open the door. I told him "sorry I can't". He just ignore me. Neighbour aunty came over to help solve the problem but end up, this crazy guy, took the gardening tools and wanted to throw at my sister. I really got a shock! My sister quickly run to the dining area to stay with me. The guy is really angry and I have no choice but to call my dad AGAIN.

Dad have no choice and called the police in case he really endangered both of us. I am a pregnant women and my sister made us all in this situation. Neighbour aunty got really worried and asked me to go over to her house from the back door. So i went because I think I cannot take it anymore. The conversation between them really make me angry because I don't sense my sister have any thought of settling the problem rather than making the crazy fella more angry. He also confronted that my sister is taking drug. Another shocking news for me.

Another 30 min only here come the cops AGAIN! They manage to get him out from our house and he drove off. After that my sister only know how to hide in the room and make calls. Later afternoon the girl friend came for lunch and the story she told me about last night got me another heartache. My sister is not telling the same story and she say that he didn't mean to hurt her but another girl friend of hers. Helping him again... nothing to say.

After knowing so much fact about my lier sister, I got very disappointed and hurt. Everyone worries about her, trying to help but she show sign that friends are always the best! Already went out as early as 7am in the morning. The more she go out, the more i'm worried at home. What for... she don't even care! I really hate her and also I hate myself for showing unnecessary love to her. Might as well save more for my baby!

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Morning walk

Didn't know morning walk at the park in Taman Tun Dr Ismail can be something very fun to do everyday! Since I need more excercise for more healthy baby, I decided to go to the park as much as possible in order for baby to grow and easy for me to deliver in the future.

Last week, I went on the weekday, after a few rounds of walking, I decide to take some photo since there's not many people in the park. Suddenly, an old uncle, enthusiastically helped me in taking the photos and also explain to me that how to take the photo so that I will not have shady face! Cute person.

Today, while walking, my last round in the park, one Indian uncle stopped me by saying "good morning, how are you doing?". I actually did got a shock but I find these people are so nice to make your day. I didn't know greetings in the morning from a stranger can make me happy!!

After all, walking in the park does not only provide advantage to my eyes (with the greens), to my skin (vitamin D from the sun), to my baby and also to my mood (nice people and cute animals)! Hopefully I can do this everyday or every alternate day.

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

26 week check-up

Hubby's sister is home and she agree to send my down to Melaka for my regular check-up since I might not be able to do my twice a month check-up in Nov due to the timing when hubby is home. It's deepavali and definitely my doc will be in holiday.

Anyway, yesterday took me 7 hours to reach Gemencheh from KL because of a horrible 10.10.10 accident. Not interested to post up the pics here. We departed KL at 8pm and got stuck in the jam at 9.30pm. That's it. Slowly we drive from 5km/hr till 1km/hr... and then total STOP sometimes. Drag drag drag and slowly... we finally dragged 15km till the place where the accident is at 1am plus. Well, all my dear friends says that I've made it home and those didn't. So must be grateful. @@ Dunno to cry anot...

Since we're home at 2.45am, have some milk for my lil one and we all went to bed around 3am. I then decide to visit the doc in the afternoon because it will be impossible for us to wake up in 4 hours time to drive down to Melaka.

The next day, around 2pm, we depart to see my dear Dr Vishnu. Very very unlucky, we waited 1hour plus... and yet the baby is not showing her face today. Aaarrrgggh... doc also pik cik... But think back leh.. I think this doc might not be so good because he should have use a torchlight to catch her attention!! Then she'll turn out lor... wasted the scanning fee.

Of no reason, I did not ask the doc why am i low in Hb. Suddenly he ask if my family have any thalassemiacase. I say no...then he say my Hb very low...suspect got thalassemia. Spend extra RM40 to buy Iron pills where I just found out that I no need any of it! >_<

After doc, it's around 5pm. We then continue our jalan-jalan cari makan. End up in Jonker street. Desperately looking for the Durian puff which mummy is talking about. Ta Da~ Manage to get with half door close. Ooops... izzit close? Please don't. I want to eat Durian Puff!! We went in and ask and the tauke soh agree to bake some for us. Yay~ Later she told me she agree to bake more because she know I - the preggie - so wanna eat and she don't want my baby come out to be greedy? :)

Also went to another shop to try on pineapple tarts. End up we bough many many things except the pineapple tarts! @.@ womens.... After shopping, go collect our Durian puff and tauke soh also gimme one for free to eat! Yummylicious... Oh oh... she also promoted her durian ice-cream! Very nice too... RM4.50 per cup. Forgot to take pictures!

Next stop, Niu Dun for makan but not open AGAIN. Last time went with hubby also not open. Niu Dun really don't want me to eat there huh... oh, we went into the Banyonya. Nothing much in the menu and  nobody wanna layan us. Don't have the feeling to eat and we left the restaurant the end.

End up in some Food court near Malim. After dinner, straight go to Si Yee house to visit the baby. Very very cute girl whom always look at me and smile. Until today I still cannot forget her smile. So so sweet & cute. I want my girl to smile like her too ... must watch more comedy. :D Mother-in-law was so in a hurry where we step in the house and sat on the couch for only 2 minutes then she say it's time to leave. OMG!  We reach ah yee house at 7.50pm and left around 8.20pm. Almost wanna have argument with my MIL already because she keep chasing us home where I wanna talk to the new mommy on her experience. Argh...

Anyway, we're home around 9.30pm. Bath and went to bed very early because very tiring day but I'm happy!!

Thursday, September 30, 2010

24 week monthly checkup

It's my 24th weeks now. Everything is OK for me to see but...

Today, nurse diagnose me with overweight gained. She say that ibu mengandung should only get 0.5kg per week. So is around 2kg per month, yet for this past 2 months, I've been gaining 3kg and above. Always with extra 1kg. For those who know me well, you know how skinny I am right! Yet, the nurse ask me to eat 1 sudu nasi instead of 2. OMG! I'm already eating very little and now need to kurang again? Weird... I asked if its the problem with the milk I'm taking since I'm taking Fernleaf Full Cream milk. She say Fernleaf is ok but Anmum is not. Anyway, I've stoped Anmum long ago since I heard that the sugar content is quite high.

After that, I'm ask for my 1st injection for something call Tetanus (ATT).
This is what it's purpose:
Suntikan ATT atau nama penuhnya dikenali sebagai ‘Anti Tetanus Toxoid’ merupakan suntikan wajib untuk semua pelajar tingkatan 3. Suntikan ATT ini diberikan bertujuan adalah untuk menggelakkan mendapat penyakit ‘Kancing Gigi’ yang disebabkan oleh virus.

Anyway, this injection is more for diabetic women. I'm actually so regret to get my stupid MGTT test done so early in the kampung and now don't know of what reason I need to be on BSP control. I'm taking so much durian that time of course the result will come out as high la... *sad* How I wish I know more about pregnancy and deny them to do the test for me till I'm in week 24!!!

Or... am I really hidden with diabetic problem? Only God knows I think. I'm just so fed-up with taking the trouble to see the doc for just one work OK. I can also say that myself since I can read the result isn't it. Need to go back to the kampung and scold the doctor already.

Today, this Kelana Jaya Klinik got one Chinese tomboy - Dr Chan. I thought that he/she may be nice enough to chinese. Yet, I so happen to have some problem in meeting a dietitian since I'm their GDM patient, I need to see a doc to talk about the unavailability of my time. Damn her...she is sooooo LCLY. I swear I would not want to see her again. How rude she can be even I'm trying to talk to her. You think chinese doc working in government sector very "ba bi" meh... or she did something wrong to do government service for hours!

My day went so bad after seeing her... so bek cik. Hope my daughter will not be like me in the future!!! I need to stop visiting government clinic already. And yet, today's check-up was from 8.30am till 12pm. >_<''

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Weight gained!!

Time really flies... and I still thought I'm in my 22nd week of pregnancy until I check my blog ticker.... I am already 23 weeks and 2 days.

Previous day I weighted myself before bed and I was 47.7kg. Yesterday I weight again and I've shoot up to 48.1kg. When I use the old weighing machine, I'm actually suprised to see that I'm 48kg. Can't believe my eyes and tried weighing on mum's digital machine. It went 48.1kg!

WOW! It's 48kg u know. Haven't been increasing any weight for many years as it's always stagnant at 45kg. Hohoho... I would be jumping up and down when my weight reaches 50kg!! Hahahaha...

Anyway, if you see me in person, you'll definitely won't believe that I'm 48kg because you may only see bones still. I'm glad that baby is eating and growing inside me. Just hope that my laziness in monitoring my blood sugar will not affect her. Everything gonna be alright baby! Mommy will do it on the 29th Sept before we go for our check-up in govt clinic again. Grow healthily & happily! Mommy loves you!! Oh... and daddy too ^^

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Shopping again n again

Today decided to go Ikano after lunch so that I don't need to eat out so often. Cannot forgive myself for not taking care of me and baby.^^

I manage to buy 2 books from popular. I think it should be useful and I will be so occupied with these book because they are very thick!! Hopefully baby still inside before I finish it. This 2 books has already cost me RM76 after getting 10% discount. Mum say is good investment tho ><
This book is all about pregnancy

This book teaches you on how to teach your baby while it's still in your womb

After getting the book that I need, we were hungry again and sat down in Ikea for their cheap cheap ice-cream (ya, I shouldn't take so much cold things but....its just so tempting tho) and their nice curry puff. Mum find that Malaysia is still the best place to stay because she really can't find such good food with such good price oversea.

Baby has not been kicking me much since darling hubby ask her not to... I find that it's not a good sign because I might not know how is she doing inside. Hopefully baby will continue to kick me after talking much to her. Ya, now everyday I must talk to her... how to develop this habit? I will find that it's weird talking to myself.... or say shy to let other know that I'm talking to myself. Ha~ Anyway, I want to have that bonding with my lil baby, I have to talk to her, sing to her and even read her stories. Must start liao... see... now she is kicking to say "YES".

Thursday, September 16, 2010

Shopping again

Its Malaysia National Day. What a day is that? The only good thing is.... its a Public Holiday for Malaysia! Yay~ It does not affect me much because I'm not working tho. Ha...

Anyway, planned to go 1U with mum because I haven't been to that place since I'm home in July. Kinda miss the shopping centre. We were there around 11.30am yet there is already a lot of cars. We manage to find parking at the 5th level. Gosh~ 

After that, we just walk around and look see look see. Mum has so many things she wanna see. Dingling dangling until 1.30pm, she say she's hungry. So we went luncheon in TGI Fridays! Was craving for their nachos so we went there. 

Food was alright and we were in time to participate in their customer survey for a free Sizzling Fajitas. ^^ So we gonna go back there again before 30 September 2010. The food we ate:
Chicken Nachos

Tortila Beef

After that, I ask mum to walk all the way to popular before we got tired again. So finally in popular. Looking for the pregnancy book which was recommended by hubby's cousin's wife. Can't find it there and was asked to check it out in Ikano Popular. 

We decided to go the next day because of public holiday and there's a lot of cars. We were worried that we can't find any car park. So, we walk all the way back to new wing car park. Half way, we were tired and mum was thirsty. We sat down in one of the nyonya restaurant for a drink. The restaurant name is Peranakan Nyonya something... drink was nice and pie tee wasn't as good as chicken rice shop one. ^^

We also manage to grab some kuih bahulu at the Jusco and bought breakfast in Delifrance. What a day... 

Thursday, September 9, 2010

Ta Da

Today went for scheduled check-up in private clinic. We were so early that the clinic was not open but there's already 5 couple waiting outside. We thought of as usual we'll have to wait so we went to the bathroom.

When we were back in the clinic, we were the last one in so 4 more in front of us at 8.30am. Waited....and waited... it's already 9.50am yet none has went into the clinic so hubby suspect that the doctor is not in yet.

This is the only time where my weight is measured... 47.5kg. It was 46.7 on the 2nd September and it raised 1kg in 1 week time. Oh my~ Baby is growing fast.

9.55am...doc came in. Oh~ finally after waiting for soooo long. The first few was fast, doc only see them like 5 to 10 mins. I was actually quite happy to be the late one as doc will not rush to see me if he knows that there are still so many waiting outside.

Ok...finally my turn. Doc ask if the blood test result is ok and he start to scan my lil one. The doc asked if I have already know the gender of the baby... i say "Not yet". He say "it's a GIRL".


 I'm actually happy to have a baby girl but disappointed because my duty for my mother-in-law is to have a boy first. Anyway, baby girl can accessories more! Yippee... also mean spend more money la~ :D

Hubby says that he's actually happy and don't really mind on the gender although he actually opted for a girl. Hehehe...hopefully he really say what he meant la~ So far so good for baby's development. Got her 3D/4D scan result. Doc is nice enough to charge me normal scanning price for that! Love this doc so much.

Can see that my lil baby is having my lips and other than that can't really recognise any similarity yet! Hopefully she'll have daddy's long lashed and mummy's big eyes!! ^^ *pray pray

Hubby is also nice enough to bring both of us out for a walk in the kampung. Hahaha... for exercise mar... slowly gonna teach him how to be a good daddy! We're actually very happy to have hubby around because he really been a good boy listen to what i say and does pay attention to our lil baby. ^^ He must be very happy and can't wait for the baby to come.

Of course the most most most important thing is that she need to be healthy and normal! Baby, you know daddy and mummy love you, so you must be good girl. Grow up healthily! Love ya

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Girls meeting up

Today is a great day meeting up with my best girlfriends. Really been missing them like crazy after we relocated to Kuching, Sarawak.

Time is just too short for this meet up tho... quite sad. Didn't really have enough time together although we've been together for about 4 hours. Miss the days when we use to stay overnight in Kelly's place.

Baby must be happy to hear their voices and feel their lovely touch through my stomach. They are the future god-mum!

Baby starts kickin

I think the baby starts kicking in my tummy these days. There is just something moving inside.
Tummy has grow bigger and bigger by now. Hope that baby is all well & healthy inside me.

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Parenthood Expo 2010


Did checked with some friends whether is there anything to buy during this kind of expo and the answer was "not much". So I thought may be just to go there to get a feel of being a parent. Went with mum and we end up with these:

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Thought of the day

After having a nice good breakfast, which makes me feels good in the morning so I went settle dad's account in Uptown. While driving and listening to radio, I got some thoughts on the way home.

Everyone knows this hit song: "Two Is Better Than One - Boys like Girls"


"That maybe it's true

That I can't live without you
And maybe two is better than one
But there's so much time
To figure out the rest of my life
And you've already got me coming undone
And I'm thinking two is better than one"


As for me, I now felt that ".... and I'm thinking three is better than two" HAHAHAHA.. Life with hubby is great but now we have a new member into our life, it was greater! 

Three Is Better Than Two

   

Saturday, August 7, 2010

Bleeding gums & hairy me

I've realized that I've been growing hairs and hairs have been growing fast too! It must be the hormone changes.
Anyway, there's also blood in my toothpaste foam after every brushing which I find it quite horrible. Jie say it's because lack of Vitamin C? For me, I think is lack of calcium although the net says that it is normal to have bleeding gums for pregnant women.

Anyway, I've try drinking lots of milk and TA DA! There is no blood in today's morning brushing! Hahaha... Will continue to monitor if my gum still bleeds! By the way, this is the toothpaste I'm using currently:

Friday, August 6, 2010

Follow-up Checkup

Today is another follow up check-up at governement klinik on my BSP result. Went to KJ at 9am and waited till 10.20am for my turn. I saw that inside doctor's bilik got the scanner so I requested them to do a follow up scan since I'm already in my 16weeks.

The doctor did not mention anything while she scan. After she scan she also didn't explain the result. Since I'm so lazy to ask her and her weird attitude, I just leave the result as it is. I was then told that my due date is actually on the 22nd Jan 2010 which is same with Dr Vishnu's Clinic. So I think I'll stick to that date.

KJ doctor is very curious why Gemencheh klinik did MGTT test on me where the result show that I'm a diabetic patient. I only knew that MGTT test is done when one is 24 or 28 weeks pregnant OR there is family background of diabetic. The other doctor say that I'm so kesian to be on BSP since then where my result shows perfect reading.

At first I got quite disappointed with this but after thinking through, it's still good for me after all. Just to keep myself monitored. The only bad thing is I'll have to waste a lot of time waiting in the Klinik just to hear doctor say "result is OK. You're fine". I can say that to myself since I understand the blood sugar level ranging wat ><''

Anyway, things are fine for me. Still have no appetite to eat food which is cook by my maid. Currently craving for outside food so much. Will have Roti Canai again for tonight!! Yay~

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Here comes August

Finally I'm in my 4th month pregnancy. Tummy is showing up a little only tho... Went shopping yesterday for bigger boutique and pants so that I can still go out with my girlfriends in style!

Today is appointed to visit Govt Klinik. Since I'm back in PJ, was asked to tumpang in Poliklinik Kelana Jaya. At first wanna go Kepong, the one near to hubby's sister's house but the klinik moved to somewhere further. In the end, i choose to stay back in KJ so that in case I need to wait for my next BSP test, I can still lepak in Giant Hypermarket.

Reach the Poliklinik at 8am and there are already full with pregnant mom. Here I do see many chinese unlike in kampung. They got quite busy with my case but still manage to settle me after all. They are not 'welcome' that I do my 4 BSP test with them as in KJ, the machine is rented home so that each mom-to-be can do it at home. Unlike in kampung, I have to visit on every scheduled time which is 8am, 10am, 2pm and 8pm. *duh

They say since my account is not open with them, they only allow me to test my morning BSP. Others I'll have to do it outside. Luckily they are informative enough to tell me that I am able to do one in farmasi. For me, I think the system in KJ is much more systematic than kampung one and their weighing machine is able to calculate BMI even. So advance.

After weight is taken, blood pressure measured, I'm directed to do my urine test. I think makmal forgot to test my Hb and they only check my BSP. Didn't wanted to ask because I see many got poked at the back of the palm which in kampung, blood is taken where it is supposed to be taken. (Dunno how to explain that part ;p)

Waited for like 20 min, then see the nurse in bilik. They don't do scan but the pregnant nurse use the deptone to listen to baby's heart beat. She say its quite small and difficult to find. She try to find for very long, in the end, she say got little bit can hear only. My tummy feel very pain after that. Later, I'm so happy that I am prescribed with Obimin. Which we plan to buy in private hospital next month. Hohoho... hubby is able to save money again for a month. Since I'm asked to do my BSP outside, the nurse ask me to go back tomorrow just to review my BSP. Gonna waste time in waiting and to get the "OK" from Govt Doctor! @.@

Neighbour aunty called to check where I've been. Then I ask her about the BSP test which she use to do. She say she can bring me to the pharmacy where she do her blood sugar test. After we stepped out from the house, I only found out that each test cost around RM5-6. That is so expensive as I have 3 more test to do. OMG! Suddenly, she told me that she have that machine at home but she don't know how to use. Why not I drive her to Taman Megah to check with the pharmacy where this is bought. Of course I say OK so can save a few more RM!

This is how the machine is:
So easy to use and I'll use it to monitor twice a week till I'm back in kampung :)

It's July

I am so happy because hubby is coming home on the 2nd July. He also promised me to bring me for Toy Story 3D! Since I'm not suppose to see those horror or action movie, I choose to watch cartoon. It must have been my pregnancy only hubby treated me so nice & easy. Usually he will not agree to spend such money. Hahaha..


1st July early morning, mother-in-law woke me up at 8am. She say that the aunties say all pregnant women should register in the Klinik when they are 60days pregnant else the nurse will scold. One aunty is bringing the daughter-in-law to the klinik for registration later and whether I want to go with them or not. I thought just go there open an account so that in case in the future they need to kick me into govt hospital to give birth then i no need to go through those fussy procedures since the klinik is just outside hubby's house. 


The klinik is just outside hubby's house with a 2 min driving distance. We reach there around 9am. There were many people. Mother-in-law met a few aunties that accompany pregnant daughter/daughter-in-law to the klinik. The aunties teach us what to do and we sit patiently for our turn. After 30min, my name was call and I was given a pink book with no information on it. Then they ask me to go check mengandung by giving me directions.


There were many students so I was entertained quite fast. I was asked with many questions in filling up the booklet. Weight and height were taken by then. After that, I was asked for blood and urine test. I got a shock that they are doing so many things for me which I've done none of it in Pantai Hospital. After all the test, wait again, then nurse ask me in to check my head-to-toe. Hair, eyes, fingers, leg, tummy, breast! The nurse didn't help me out from the bed and I sprained another nerve at my shoulder. *pain


After that, the nurse gave me folic acid (for baby's brain development), Fumarate (for blood), and Vitamin B complex for FREE!!! I was so happy that I did so many things and get so many vitamins without paying anything. It cost me 2 hours time. Luckily mother-in-law is willing to accompany me through all these.



I am then asked to return on the 8th July by fasting on the previous night to do a blood test on blood profile, Rh, HIV, blood sugar level and dunno wat la. Blood is taken at 9am after waited for an hour. Then they ask me to drink a cup of glucose water to check the blood sugar level after 2 hours. At the mean time I'm ask to see the doc for my first ultrasound scan with them. The baby is 4.29cm by then.  After see doc, I'm ask to visit the dentist to check my teeth. After check my teeth it's already 11am, time for my next blood to be drawn. Then go home.

12th July, there's a nurse came to visit at 10.30am. Just to do first house visit for new case like me! She just come to check and see if everything is ok and provide some information on if any bleeding happen must go to hospital immediately. 

16th July, a called from the klinik asking me to go back for a blood sugar profile follow-up on the 19th. I need to go kena cucuk at fingertips for 4 times a day. 8am, 10am, 2pm and 8pm. They say that day the blood test after the glucose water showed high blood sugar level so they want to monitor me in case i fall into diabetic. So far so good only the morning one is high i had durian on the previous night! 

Supposingly to go back for check up on 29 July but i need to go back KL so I went for my last check-up with them today. I was told that I'm still lack of 1.4kg as my weight on the 1st was 43.6kg, today only 43.2. The nurse say i'm suppose to weight 44kg. So i'm ask to see the doc tmr again! Today also did a blood test to check Hb and urine test. Everything is fine except my weight. 

The nurse say i'm suppose to return on August 2nd to check my blood sugar level again but i told them i need to go back KL and they kind of "scolded" me because they say they need to monitor me every month. I cannot disappear or skipped any check-up with them else difficult for them to report to the doc. So hor, it's not quite possible for me to return often as I need to go back to this clinic for check-up. Plus, the nurse will do house visit every month until i give birth. Even until after i give birth they also will visit to check if the baby is ok.


We did not go back for 2nd checkup with Dr Vishnu because hubby is coming back again on the 23rd. I also think is better to wait till the baby grow bigger since the doctor say the baby is too small and yet I already done many test in the klinik. So is ok to skipped private check-up once in awhile till baby get's bigger.


Hubby's home on the 2nd and we went out dating on the 3rd! Hahaha... is like after staying in the "prison" for a month, time for some fresh air for me. We went for 3D movie, had popcorn and Japanese food. We also went survey for pregnancy cloths because most of my pants can't my growing tummy. Hubby also bring me to Tesco for 1 month grocery shopping. After a day of walking, we went home at 8pm for dinner. What a lovely day!

Thursday, July 1, 2010

Month of June

The whole month of June I did almost nothing at all. Have not been feeling well and was in bed after every meal. I feel tired most of the time. On the 11th June, I don't know how I sprained my nerve. My lower back till my right leg was hurting so much. Trying to cure myself by massaging it. Days after days, it got worse until I can't lift up my leg to wear pants.

Mother-in-law also having leg problem and we both end up with a Chinese traditional doctor in the kampung. Mother-in-law did acupuncture while I did "Ba-guan". I showed hubby my "jie-zuo" ended up with scoldings from him. He told me that I am not suppose to go for "Ba-guan" when I am pregnant. Only then I try to search online to check if it is true. Ended up with horror that pregnant women is really not suppose to do "Ba-guan". Oh my, I got so worried after that but the pain was getting away. I told hubby I have no choice because I can't wear my pants after shower but he is really worried that is why he got mad at me!

Everyday I looked at my tummy to see if it grow any bigger. It just seems the same day after day tho. No hubby for the whole month but luckily hubby's family is very nice to get with. Father in law starting to bring home durian on the 21st June. Almost everyday he will bring back one durian from the temple's durian tree. Very nice "Hong xia" durian but I do not know if I am suppose to intake any of it. I just eat moderately everyday. Sometimes I will have a day holiday in case I am not suppose to take too many of it.

Thursday, June 3, 2010

It was May 2010

My KL trip back was on 5th May till 16th May just to spend time with daddy that's back from China. After that will travel back again on 27th May till 2nd June for hubby's cousin wedding. Things just didn't turn out as great as planned.

Me & hubby were planning to get a baby but we didn't thought things went so well. Hahaha.. When I was in in-law's place, days passed by fast and I was quite nervous waiting for my period to come. It's 11th already, still no sign. 12th May ... the day that period should visit... and yet... no sign of it. I was thinking that may be we've strikes lottery by then. Dragged a few days later, went to Guardian to buy my very first Pregnancy test kit. I didn't know that I can feel so shy when choosing one. Dearly wasn't by my side and I have to do it all alone. Choosing a brand, comparing with prices and researching on what are the difference. In the end, still choose to get ClearBlue since I saw a friend of mine using that. Quite expensive... it cost around RM18 if not mistaken.

Was scared and shy to tell mother-in-law about it. Just hinted her what if I am pregnant, should I attend the cousin's wedding or not. By then, she is already quite excited but can't do anything. She just say if really kena then don't go better. Waited for 7 days more just to make sure that the test will turn out more accurate. It was 18th May... Ta-Da! Test come out positive. I was actually in joy!! Muahahah..

 First thing I call hubby to tell him about my result. He was in joy too but he ask me to tell his mum myself. Haih...

Thinking left & right for another day, scared that hubby will be unhappy if I still don't inform his mother. So I just tell her one day morning that I am actually pregnant. Hahahaha... She is soooo happy and called the elder daughter. Everyone was in joy. I thought that life would be so good after that.

If calculate with Last Period Date, I am already 1 month and 1 week pregnant. No sign of any symptoms. I was wondering if I am REALLY pregnant or not. Days passes by, the 2nd week came. Slowly I do not feel good. Slowly I am not eating as much as I was yet I do not have any morning sickness. God bless me! I do have evening sickness tho... my own interpretation. When time reaches around 5pm or 6pm, I will start to feel nausea. No appetite for dinner after that but the problem is I do feel hungry and I must eat.

Everyday I eat little but many meals. Not much choices in kampung tho. Everyday bread & rice. Oh, I have not been eating rice after my 1st week. Mother-in-law cook all types of noodles for me. Little by little, day by day. It is so torturing. No appetite but always feel hungry. Have to stay put till hubby is back on the 29th May.

What to I do at home? I started to be so nervous and wanted to know so much about my baby so I started to search online for more information. I then discovered this page that can calculate my due date and also pregnancy timeline (http://www.baby2see.com/development/index.html). This is the result.

Every now and then I will visit this website just to see how is the baby growing in me. It is really fascinating.
After that, I also started to do a lot of research on which Ob&Gyn to go for. In the end, I choose to see Dr Vishnu in Pantai Malacca. We went to do my first pregnancy checkup on 31st May when the baby is 7 weeks old.

We drove all the way down to Malacca as early as 7.30am and reaches there at 8.30am. We were so unlucky that the doctor is in an operation. The nurse ask us to return at 11am. The travelling distance was so far and we made an appointment to check on hubby's mum's leg at 2pm in Mahkota. Then the nurse is nice enough to ask us to return before 4pm and she will let me jump que since we travel from so far.

After we settle mother-in-law's appointment. We manage to reach there around 3pm. Still need to wait for half an hour before it's our turn. I was so excited to see the doctor but I think the doctor is very exhausted. There were many patients waiting outside and he has not rested since morning. He look exhausted but still very patient. At first the nurse check my blood pressure, and then I'm asked to lay on the bed for scanning.

I pee-ed before I went in causes the doctor have problem in scanning. *.* The nurse didn't tell me that I shouldn't go to the toilet. The baby is very very small, as I read in the net, it is only the size of sesame. Since the baby is already 7 week, i just wanted to check if there is any heartbeat. The doctor try very hard to find the heart to check for the heartbeat. IT'S BEATING! Oh, I feel so happy that it is alive!! Hahaha..

The doctor is very serious. He told me that the baby is still very small. No need to be too happy about it. (shocked) No need to inform the whole kampung about my pregnancy yet till 3 month. And then he just ask me if I have any questions. Weird doctor but very patient in doing the scan. The doctor never prescribe me with anything and I have to ask the nurse for it. We bought folic acid and Revicon multi-vit with the total bill of RM116.